October’s Invitation

Just An Ordinary Day in October
October 21, 2026

October is a generous month. It coaxes us from summer into cooler, more purposeful days. It is a bridge from leisure to readiness, from carefree warmth to focused intention. As the days unfold, our perspective changes. Gone are the mindless errands in short sleeves and flip-flops. We grab a sweater—just in case. Later, a jacket.

This beautiful month has always offered me a meditation on aging. As the trees begin to shout their life cycle in a roar of color, an awareness rises that we too mature into an infinity we can only imagine and trust. 

My grandnephew offered me an image for all this one day as we watched a murmuration of starlings just outside our window.

He had turned a small pair of binoculars to the wrong end, rendering the starlings farther than they actually were. “The birds are too tiny and too far away”! But when we flipped the binoculars, he gained a new and delighted perspective!

I think October is like that pair of binoculars. If we look at time from the inverse side, we see “summer” disappearing,  life diminishing, memories dissolving. But when we allow the present moment to magnify our wonder and gratitude for life, we see possibility, gratitude, and hope.

At first, Nate struggled to focus his binoculars. It was the first time he had tried. A gentle nudge of my hands helped him discover the right view. October is a good month to give ourselves that same kind of nudging. Yes, it is almost winter, with all the definitive realities that winter may bring.

But it is also time for the most glorious display of color, migration, and light imaginable! Praying with October’s magnificence brings us closer to the Creator whose annual gift invites us to live – like the trees, with flamboyant joy and trust; like the birds – with inexhaustible confidence in our ultimate destination.


Music: Tchaikovsky – The Seasons: October (“Autumn Song”) – played by Vladimir Tropp

Suggested Scripture: Psalm 90

For Your Reflection

  • What feelings or reactions do I have after reading this reflection?
  • Do my feelings or reactions remind me of any passage or event in scripture, especially in the life of Christ? 
  • What actions might I take today because of my response to these readings?

Feast of the Exaltation of the Holy Cross

September 14, 2026

I think we get too used to things, sometimes – in my case, the phrase “Holy Cross”.

Holy Cross Parish was my first mission assignment as a 21-year-old enthusiastic, clueless teacher. For me, the constantly repeated phrase became bleached of any religious meaning, indicating instead a geographic area, a football team, or a Saturday night dance for teens, blithely described in semi-illiterate phrases such as:


Joe: Where ya’ from?  
Pete: Holy Cross up on Springfield Ave.

Joe: Who do ya’ play for? 
Pete: Holy Cross. We won the championship!

Joe: Whata’ ya’ doing Saturday night? 
Pete: Holy Cross. They got a good dance sometimes.


I never once, at that time, considered the true meaning of the sacred name under which I lived. That amazes me now when I think about it, sixty years later. What a blessing I missed! What an invitation I overlooked! To contemplate the mystery of the Holy Cross while I lived within its mantle! But I think I was just too young and, as I mentioned above, clueless!


God has been patient with me though, accompanying me over the next sixty years to a deeper understanding of the precious gift of the Holy Cross as it reveals its mystery in my life. You, too, are surely aware of this slow revelation in your own experience.

We all know this: life brings crosses to every human being. No one lives without experiencing suffering in some or many forms. It is inherent in our human nature as we stretch for heavenly perfection from the bonds of earthly encumbrance.

God knows this too. And so we have been given the gift of Jesus Christ and the mystery of his Cross to steady us as this truth reveals its gift over the unrelenting course of our days.


Whatever pain our crosses bring us, be it physical, emotional, or spiritual, that pain exposes our heart to the grace of transformation.

The Holy Cross of Christ assures us that our personal cross is not simply an unavoidable suffering. It is our unique pathway into God’s heart and the absolute nature of Divine Love.

We will be tempted to think that loss, failure, incapacity, suffering, even death are terminals where life ends or fails. Rather, by the empty cross of the resurrected Christ, we are convinced that these experiences, when received in faith and open to grace, are the portals to Divine Life.

Our crosses test the strength of our faith, the endurance of our hope, and the depth of our love. The Holy Cross is God’s answer to that test.


Music: Vexilla Regis – Hymn to the Holy Cross

Suggested Scripture: Philippians 2:1-11

For Your Reflection:

  • What feelings or reactions do I have after reading this reflection?
  • Do my feelings or reactions remind me of any passage or event in scripture, especially in the life of Christ? 
  • What actions might I take today because of my response to these readings?