November 16, 2025
It may be a bit early, but as we draw closer to the season of Thanksgiving, it is time to make preparations for our “family eucharist”.
Families pass batons much like relay teams do. One generation hands its gifts and stories on to the next. Eventually, the cycle of love and tradition wears a deep path in history that becomes known by your family name.

How often do we see a newborn child and comment that she has her grandmother’s eyes? How many times have we said to someone, “You remind me so much of your father.”? Whenever we see the pattern of strength and generosity repeated through the generations, we are given reason to hope and to be grateful.
In our family, the making of the Thanksgiving pies is a beloved tradition. Over the years, it has passed from my grandmother to my mother, my father, my brother, and me. Like many family traditions, pie-making has become a mark of our family – a “charism”, if you will – symbolizing our desire to feed, support, and love one another. It is also a way of remembering those who have taught us its intricacies.

Over thirty years ago, I went into the kitchen and found my oldest niece, then about nine years old, preparing the pie crust and stirring the filling. Looking at her, I realized that she and her brother and sisters are the beloved hope of our family’s future and the blessed confirmation of its past. Now, I have the joy of seeing their children making the Thanksgiving pies – so symbolic of that renewed hope and blessing – and such a source of joy.





The Newest Generation
Be especially mindful of your children this Thanksgiving. Confirm in them the traditions they continue and the newness they contribute to your family. Whether they sit over at the kids’ table or have joined you at the “big table”, make Thanksgiving Day a special time to love them. Share the stories that connect them to their heritage. Offer them that irreplaceable stability as they create their unique chapter of your family’s story.
Such simple moments can offer us a eucharistic grace –
- the welcoming of all at a shared table,
- the telling of stories that define our values,
- the exchange of joyful hope, and the security of forgiveness with our familial community
- the challenge and encouragement to model such hope in the world
Surely at such times, Jesus is with us, reminding us to “Do this in memory of Me.” As we pass the bread – or the pie – to one another, let’s remember the power of such Love.

Music: “Family is Family” from the movie “Family Camp”
For Your Reflection
- What feelings or reactions do I have after reading this reflection?
- Do my feelings or reactions remind me of any passage or event in scripture, especially in the life of Christ?
- What actions might I take today because of my response to these readings?









